Monday 5 November 2012

What is it about Dom/mes and assumptions? [June 2008]


Really, really f*cked off... Do Dom/mes really think that if you're friendly they have some type of ownership over you...? No discussions, no conversations, no setting of the goal posts, no agreements made...? Even, making it clear that you're just friends...? i'm free to make my OWN decisions, and i'm going to make them... Maybe people who i thought were my friends, just aren't... i'm learning that this friendly, inclusive world i thought i'd found, is maybe very superficial. Well, i may be a sub, but i know the rules of friendship, and if some people think there has to be some deference or some kind of different rule-set between Dom/me and sub, then those aren't MY values and i don't play those games.

And don't get me started on those that claim to always be your friend, and then vanish when the going gets tough... But THAT'S a whole different story...

Think i may be going to take a much reduced role in the social scene from now on... Until i think i can tell who really is a friend, and who is a fake...

Hoping i calm down by morning...

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